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Can These Former BFFs Recover From The Ultimate Betrayal? | MTV’s Ghosted

Can These Former BFFs Recover From The Ultimate Betrayal? | MTV’s Ghosted


(intense violin music) – [Producer] Hey guys. Delmond is here. (dramatic music intensifies) – [Narrator] On this episode of “Ghosted: Love Gone Missing,” Travis and Rachel are helping
Julia figure out why her long-time best friend, Delmond, cut her out of his life with no warning. – [Travis] Have you guys known each other since you were kids? – Yeah, I’ve known him since I was three. He was five. So, we’re a couple of years apart. – [Rachel] You would say
he’s your oldest friend? – Oh yeah. His mom used to babysit me. So, we grew up and did
everything together. I don’t get along with my mom. I don’t get along with my sister. He’s the only family I
have at the end of the day. We’d go on vacations,
we go to our cottages and we did girl things
even before he came out. I was the first he came out to. He’s been like my sister
and everything, so. – [Narrator] All that changed though on a typically celebratory anniversary. – When was the date of the ghosting? – The date of the ghosting was around November eighth last year. Every year, we decided to
go out on his anniversary of him coming out November eighth, 2014. So that way, you know, we could just have a great time and enjoy. – To celebrate.
– Yeah. But, I was going through
a lot with my family. So, I wasn’t able to make
the anniversary party. And, um, I think that’s what really took a toll on our friendship. He stopped talking to me after that. You know that night at
the anniversary party, he was posting things
on Snapchat and Facebook and when I had seen the
Snapchat shortly after, Delmond, he blocked me on there! So, on Face– – He saw that you watched his– – Yes.
– Story– – [Rachel] Yes. – And then, he immediately blocked you? – Immediately, yeah. So then, on Facebook, I
don’t think he noticed that we were still friends on
there and he posted a video on there saying he was
with his real friends. Whatever. And I actually have the video
if you guys wanna see it. – Sounds like a pretty
passive-aggressive post. – I’m here with my real
friends celebrating me. (everyone cheering) – [Narrator] And now that
she’s six months pregnant, Julia is desperate to find
out what exactly happened. – I posted about it. – [Travis] So, there’s a
very, you know, big chance that he saw the post. – Right, and he hasn’t–
– And he knows. – Reacted. He hasn’t called, texted,
liked the picture. Nothing. And, you know, that’s just odd. How can you go knowing
someone your whole life and say that you have a nephew on the way and you just don’t care? – [Narrator] Julia has one other theory for Del’s disappearance. – It could be because
obviously I was spending a lot of time with my ex-boyfriend, Devin. So, maybe Delmond was jealous that I was spending more time with him. – Why did y’all break up? – Uh, we broke up because Devin was not the normal boyfriend. He was being very manipulative,
he was invading my privacy, he was just–
– He was an asshole. – Yeah. We broke up right before
the anniversary party. – How did Devin and Del
interact with each other? – I mean, they were, it
seemed like Del, you know, kind of just put up with him. – [Narrator] Equipped
with the info from Julia, Travis and Rachel dive
into Del’s social media and find a very unexpected comment. (loud gasp) – Wait, what’s Devin’s last name? (bleep) Is it? – [Travis] Yeah, I
wrote down in the phone. Devin (bleep). You know you can always talk to me, Del. – Can we just pause on the
fact that Devin is commenting on Del’s profile–
– Yeah. – And according to Julia, they just kind of tolerated each other. – [Narrator] After tracking Devin down, things get real fast. – [Rachel] Well, you kinda
understand the gist of things. Julia reached out to us. We’ve just been talking to people trying to figure out what’s up. – [Devin] Okay. – Did you guys ever hang
out with her friends? – Yeah. – How much time did you
spend with all of them? – I mean, I wouldn’t say
a good amount of time. – Why did y’all break up? – Just, like, honestly, I don’t know. – You don’t know?
– No. – You didn’t ask ques,
well, let me back up. Did you not care that you guys broke up? – I mean, I did care because, like, I was fragile at that moment. So, she hurt me. When we did part ways,
like, I was left homeless, like, struggling for a job, like, workin’ side jobs here and there. – Well, what about Del? – It was hard for me. So, like, her best friend was Del. I talked to Del. We ended up growing a friendship. – Really?
– Yeah. – Okay, that’s surprising to
us because Julia made it seem like you and Del weren’t close. – I mean, it is what it is. – The reason why we’re
asking all these questions, we were on his social media. He recently posted something about not having anyone to talk to. We know there’s a comment that you wrote. – [Rachel] Yeah. – And you said, “I’ll always
be here for you, Del.” – And that’s just– – Yeah, because he had my back. When Julia left me high
and dry and (bleep) me over in the time you need the
most, that’s what happened. Del was there for me. She wasn’t. – Let me ask you this. Are you surprised that
Del has ghosted Julia? – No. This is something I’ve
known was gonna happen. – Why?
– Because she used me. So, what I did is, like, I talked to Del. I told him what Julia said. I told him the lies and all
the (bleep) Julia was talkin’. Julia wouldn’t talk to him
face to face and say (bleep). But, guess what? She was telling me (bleep). – What was some of the (bleep)
that Julia was talking? – I mean, it’s not my place to say. – She was talking (bleep) about Del. – Yeah. – So, Julia was talking (bleep) about Del and you decided to tell
him to get back at Julia? – Yeah! They’re all two-faces. Like, he always posted on social
media about being yourself. But in all reality, he’s not. The plastic surgery, like, everything! Come on. – So you think Del’s a hypocrite as well? – [Devin] Yeah. – Do you take pride or any
responsibility in the fact that Del ghosted Julia? – Revenge is sweet. – (sighs) Oh man. – Karma’s also a bitch. – Like I said, she used me
and she basically left me in the time of need when I
needed somebody the most. Revenge is sweet–
– Remember when we– – Karma’s a bitch! – Karma is a bitch! – (Bleep) happens. – [Narrator] After learning
that Travis and Rachel met up with Devin, Delmond
quickly hits them up and agrees to meet them. (door squeaks) – Hi, Del! Can we call you Del?
– Absolutely. You guys can come in. – How are you?
– All right. – Nice to meet you.
– Okay. – Did you guys said you talked to Devin? – So we–
– Yeah. – We literally just left Devin. – Okay, what did he say to you? – I don’t like him. Let me just start there. – I don’t either. – Okay, so, that’s news to us. – Okay, yeah. – So, we brought up Julia. He had a crazy reaction. He essentially admitted
to telling you things that Julia said. – What exactly did he tell you guys? – He talked (bleep) about
Julia and the things that she confided to him in private. But, he’s very outspoken
about, you know, how he doesn’t like what you put out on social media. He’s accused you of getting surgery and all these crazy things. – He didn’t mention anything else? – [Both] No. – He just kept saying “revenge is sweet.” He said that over and over again. And he was referring
to whatever he told you and how it broke up the relationship that you had with Julia. Can I ask you this? You would consider Julia family, right? And your closest friend before
whatever went down went down? Do you feel like whatever it is that Julia has the right to know from everything that you’ve been through? – I can’t, I can’t do this. I can’t do this. – I will tell you this though. 15 year plus friendship,
like, you work through that and you get past that. Y’all were family. And I’ll be honest with you. She has been miserable for
these last seven months. – Do you know that she’s pregnant? – [Both] You do know. – She said her baby needs
to meet his godfather. – There is a bit more, but
I don’t know if I can, like, really talk about it. – Look, you don’t need to tell us. What we will ask is that you
find it somewhere in your heart to sit down with her tomorrow. We’re gonna be there. You’re not gonna be alone. – I’ll talk to her. – I think you’re making a
step in the right direction. – [Narrator] Okay, so since Del is in, it’s time for these two former
friends to come face to face. – (voice breaking) I just
don’t know what to say. I miss you so much! I love you so much! I’m so sorry for not going
to your anniversary party! I was going through so much
and you don’t understand how hard it was to go through
what I was going through with my mom and the breakup. – (whispers) She’s so heartbroken. – I’m six months pregnant, Del. I don’t know if you
knew, but your nephew’s gonna be here in three months! I’ve been doing it all alone! I need to know what I did so wrong. Was it because I was spending
more time with Devin? Was it because he was talking about me? Was it because I didn’t go
to your anniversary party? What did I do? Why did you ghost me? – I did know that you were pregnant. I just couldn’t face you. It’s been so long. – (voice breaking) How
can you do that to me? (sobbing) – I was upset that you
missed my anniversary party. – (whispering) That’s not it. That’s not it. That’s not it. – Devin reached out to me. He told me all of these horrible things that you supposedly said about me. He told me the reason you
didn’t come to my party was because I’m a terrible friend. He talked about plastic surgery and just all these nasty things. And it really hurt my
feelings because you know how much that hurts me. You know how many times a
day I get that from people? People call me fake
or, or, superficial or. Did you say those things about me? – I never said anything
about you to him, Del. (voice breaking) Like, why
would I do that to you? – I guess I didn’t know where to stand because you didn’t come to my party. So, I wasn’t sure if you were mad at me. We weren’t really talking. I should have been a better friend. – (sobbing) I would
never talk bad about you. You’ve been my best friend forever. You were never a bad friend. – That’s not true. I was a bad friend. The reason I ghosted you,
after your breakup with Devin, we had sex and we were
together for two months. (crying softly) He reached out to me. I guess I was a shoulder to
cry on and he seduced me. (crying softly) – (voice breaking) I’m so
disgusted with you right now. There’s so many men in this
world and you choose one piece of (bleep) over me! I’ve been in your life how long?! – Julia, I. (sobbing loudly) – Julia, you. (Julia sobbing loudly) – I was just stupid. I was stupid, Julia. I’m sorry. I. – I (bleep) don’t care about him. It’s the fact how could you do that? You stopped talking to me over that. I thought I ruined our
friendship and it wasn’t me! – You know how manipulative he is. But I (bleep) hate him. Honestly, I wouldn’t blame
you if you didn’t forgive me ’cause I don’t know if
I can forgive myself. (voice breaking) You did
not deserve that, Julia, and I wanna be in Memphis’s life. – You’ve seen the post. (Julia crying) – Every single day, Julia, I regret that and that’s something I can’t take back. – I don’t know what to say. I have to think about what I wanna do. – [Narrator] And with that bombshell, these two now have to decide
whether they’re going to make up or ghost each other for good. – Before you send your final
text, you have a chance to get your last words out
if there’s anything else that you wanna say. – I don’t know if I can ever
look at you the same way again. I don’t know if I forgive
you because of the fact that 16 years was worth giving
up for someone so temporary. What you did was wrong and I can’t have that happen to me again. – I just wanna let you know
that I fully take responsibility for what I’ve done. It was not okay and I
just want you to know that I do love you and I
apologize for all of this. I was wrong. – [Rachel] Please send a final text now. (loud typing) (phones ding) – [Travis] Del, what did you decide? – I decided to make up. I honestly (bleep) up. I don’t deserve you. I really don’t. And I’m gonna do everything in my power to make it up to you. I’m gonna try to gain your trust back. – [Rachel] Okay, Julia. What did you decide? – I decided to make up. We have so much history and
I won’t allow another person to come between us. You’re like blood to me. I forgive you. I won’t forget what you did. But, I’ll always love you and you will always be a part of my life. You’ll always be a part of my heart. – I missed you.
– I missed you too. – [Rachel And Travis] Aww. – [Julia] It’s so nice to see you. – [Narrator] Now that
some time has passed, it’s time to find out
if things are still cool between Julia and Del. – Hi! – Oh!
– Oh, you guys are together! – How are you guys?
– Hey guys! – [Travis] What’s goin’ on?! – [Both] Well. (Rachel laughing) – We’re happy and we made up. I’m thankful for you guys
bringing my best friend back. – Oh my God. – Now, my son has his godfather. (everyone laughing) – [Both] Oh! – Just to address the
elephant in the room, have you guys spoke to Devin? You guys been in contact or is he cut? Is he canceled? – No!
– Absolutely not! – No, he’s blocked. – From everything.
– Bad block. – Good!
– He’s been blocked. – Good! – [Rachel] I’m glad we can
bring you guys back together! – [Both] Bye! – [Del] Bye! – Aw, that’s why we do this!
– I know.

Comments (100)

  1. I feel so bad for Julia. You can tell she’s a supportive person and really out going. she gives it all and it makes me want to be her friend 🥰

  2. That's a real ghost makeup

  3. He's a BYTCH for that… SMDH

  4. Julia you don't need these types of people in your life. Leave and grow 🙌🏾🧡

  5. Why always most people with makeup always has to put there "Angela Bassett Cry" on #Drama. That Del had the nerve such nerve…. Really?! 🤨😒

  6. She’s too good for him. He’s a self centred cliche gay. She should have ghosted him. He will do it again!!

  7. So this is her only family left and he’s trash as well 😭😭🤧

  8. The ex bf is gay

    She needs to let em both go. The bff is GROSS for doing all that shit.

  9. There’s a reason why an ex is and ex for reason the amount of bullshit I’m hearing 🤦🏽‍♀️

  10. This shit is so fake

  11. His makeup is casket ready!

  12. His face makes my face hurt

  13. he slept with her ex. its obvious he did. its written all over his face. all over his fake mask makeups. oh yea he's right about one thing. HE'S A BADDEST BEST FRIEND. make up excuses tryin to pin any faults on her because he wanted her ex?

  14. I need to be in this show 😂

  15. I KNEWWWW IITTTTTTTTTTTTT

  16. Imagine a person from 19th cemetery watching this and trying to understand 😂

    I’m high lol

  17. Poor t millie how you get roped into this scripted ass show?

  18. Put his fucking ass away!

  19. Please he is so fake I wanna fucking fight his ugly ass

  20. This is too much stress for a pregnant lady

  21. She is soooo dumb. Omg. Going back to a best friend who did something like that. He doesnt care for you. He will do it again. Better to be alone than have a best friend who in reality is your worst enemy. And i know what im talking about because i had the same shit going on. Gurl bye.

  22. You could already tell the ex boyfriend fucked the best friend.. he love him some dick!

  23. Wowwwwwwww. Not only is her ex totally crazy but like, that's so extra and whorish, having sex with her male friend in order to get revenge. I can't even comprehend why a guy would do that lol xD

  24. She did not need this stress ❤️ she took all of the responsibility on herself and none of it was her fault

  25. The idea of the show just is kind of really stupid and the fact that they are stressing her out because she missed his anniversary of him coming out it’s just beyond stupid.

  26. I knew he slept with him!!!

  27. You deserve to be emberrassed by tht nose contour

  28. I can’t be the only one who knows that they guys f*cked the moment I started watching😂😂

  29. The ex created all of this
    HE IS A manipulator and has no real feelings
    A PUSSY BITCH

  30. Don't allow the crazy ex to win in his twisted game

  31. Is her ex her baby daddy? Tbh I wpuldve cut them both off because I've had a friend do that to me.not once but twice.

  32. These are terrible actors

  33. I must be a psychic because I saw the two hooking up the moment they saw the comment😂😔

  34. I already knew this was gon happen 💀

  35. When she broke down I literally did too. So sad.

  36. “He seduced me” I don’t believe that shit y’all both grown asl, it was consensual you BOTH wanted that shit for a long time. If I was Julia man I would try my hardest to pretend that I never knew either one of them.

  37. he doesn’t even care , straight asshole .

  38. This some sick shit smfh

  39. THE CRINGE 😬😬😬 this is so fake and bad acting 😕 it’s embarrassing me…

    Also if this was real why the fuck did he not just go to the actual source and talk to her about it instead of just acting of impulse……

  40. Del is so fake, if you were a friend to her you would have ask about the rumor, girl walk away!!! matter of fact run!!!!!

  41. I seen that coming

  42. Hope everything with the baby goes well darling !

  43. she is the most precious person, what a sweet soul🥺🥺🥺

  44. Can't believe she decided to makeup, no matter the friendship… What a cunt move to shag her baby daddy and then stop with her aha

  45. I DONT BELIEVE THIS I THINK THS IS FAKE AS HELL

  46. Del was never her friend, he wanted her man & was jealous… he isn’t a real friend. Both will get the karma you deserve.

    K A R M A is real. 💅🏽

  47. She sounds so hurt. I wanna run up on him for her

  48. This is devastating to watch…she made a huge mistake…once a snake always a snake

  49. U could see of see Devin slept with del he said revenge is sweet like wtf

  50. Idk what bothers me more her slouching crushing the baby while sitting or his contour

  51. Yall finna make a bitch cry

    A bitch is me

    im finna cry

  52. i just hope she doesn't lose her baby over the stress

  53. This is so fake they don’t even try anymore

  54. "Julia, ya know I'll never make a fool of ya!" Please tell me y'all know that reference!

  55. But u are fake and superficial lol

  56. He is a poes 😔

  57. T Mills my baybbyyyy ❤️

  58. This broke my heart seeing Julia like this. I want to be her friend

  59. How could Del do that to her??? Like you legit threw away someone you’ve had in your life for over half of your life and you treat them like that???? Never

  60. This shit is juicy

  61. I KNEW IT!! 😂 I hoped y’all moved passed it. If the friendship was a great as y’all said it was y’all will forgive each other and move on.

  62. Just sickening. People do anything for revenge.

  63. I love Rachel. She was low-key not here for them making up. She was looking like naaaa dead that rn. And I died when ol' dude said "so wat devin say?" and she was like "first off, I don't like him" on periodtt sis!!! She's everything.

  64. This is just too fake. Devin is clearly gay, I could tell the minute they showed him. This is all a pathetic attempt to get huge ph luxury and it worked. His makeup is just too extreme.

  65. The amount of times they say "she was talking beep."

  66. My grandma use to say when people do you wrong they cant even look you in the face sometimes. Thats why he ghosted her because he knew he was dirty. It was the easy why out.

  67. I know my comment's gonna get washed away in an ocean here, but like. I scroll through these comments and see all these "so fake"s and it just doesn't sit right with me to watch and let it happen, in case people from this ep see these.

    I'll try to keep it short, but I don't think he was faking anything. None of this is about me, but I felt his reactions and I've been there on the "I did the wrong thing" in relationships. I wanna say that I appreciate his honesty and agreeing to come onto the show, cause it takes guts. And it's nice to know I'm not the only one who reacts that way. I see that he messed up, we all see that. But he didn't know how to deal with it. This was a new experience with him. Whether or not he was running away from being rejected by her for what he did- he felt so disgusted with himself that he didn't think she should forgive him. He said "I understand if you don't forgive me" but I felt that, he believes she shouldn't have to because he hates what he did and doesn't forgive himself. He clearly didn't want to hurt her, they must have had a great relationship before or something. But it was so big to him that he didn't know how to handle it. It wasn't like normal friendships where you can pull them aside and say sorry, she meant a lot to him which is why he decided "she shouldnt put up with me anymore i fucked up, bad"

    And for the not crying… I felt that too. When you're infront of the person you wronged that bad, you don't think you deserve to cry; he knew that she was the victim in this, she got dogged the hardest, not him. So he tried to hold it together. But his movements were still pained because he couldn't take seeing how bad he hurt her.
    He wants her to know he's taking responsibility, not trying to win her over with tears. (idk about yall but when I was growing up i got totally shit on by family for crying about anything, so i learned to keep it together until i was alone somewhere so people didn't think I was trying to get attention. which looks like what he's doing.. trying to be as real as he can). I can't stress enough how real that is, I know that's not the normal way of thinking but that's just how some people process things.
    I had to say it, though. I believe him.

    If Del ever reads this I'd like him to know that he's so important, he can't just dismiss himself like that. It's wrong to decide for a longtime friend when you're gonna walk out on them, self-hate or not… but you should give them the chance to say stay or go. I respect you coming clean instead of opting out of the show. It's nice to see that people can be forgiven for things like this. Maybe I'll talk to my friend again, too. I see now that they deserve the explanation.

  68. I feel she needs to dump him never allow him in her life again , friendship expires.

  69. I can’t pay attention I keep staring at the guy that host the show

  70. This has to be fake because…..😂😂😂

  71. So we’re just gonna pretend that guy isn’t moving behind them? 5:47

  72. I´ll drop him! He fucked with her boyfriend for two months because he was "seduced" – like what the hell. This piece of bad contouring can´t be trusted with any of her future partners.

  73. Her heart is too big but some way i am happy she gave him a chance i see that it was killin him in the inside what he did oh man i felt that when she said i am havin your nephew

  74. I'm half through it but i can already tell he slept with her man !!

  75. Poor baby these whole six months she thought she did something wrong and this boy, supposedly her best friend cut her out for HER man

  76. She named her kid Memphis?

  77. This made me cry my heart aches for her she loves him so much

  78. Who believes their bff's piece of shit ex over their bff??? Honestly???

  79. Soon as they put Devlin on screen I said they had sex I bet 😂😂😂😂😂 and boom

  80. Ghost!!!! I would have just ghosted him n block him.

  81. Who is she pregnant by??

  82. Knew that happened before he even said it come on now😂😂

  83. Makeup looking harsh!!!

  84. Reality TV sabotaging and making the gays look awful UH-GAIN

  85. He needs to blend that makeup

  86. He's a greedy lil gay bitch. Julia deserves better! Del is stupid not to see that he was used because he was homeless. This further proves that nothing is free, he paid for that dick with rent and what else for 2 months! And if there's more than one person says that about you then it must be true. And yes Devin KARMA IS A BITCH.

  87. Her story brought me to TEARS!!😢😭

  88. You can tell that nose job caused him to have breathing problems🤦🏿‍♀️

  89. Del was like 'bros before hoes!'

  90. oo that nose contouring

  91. this shit is so fake

  92. When he said what did he tell you? And then he said is that all he said? It was then that I knew he had slept with her Ex smh. Come on now girl code

  93. I would never forgive him. Full responsibility my ass, gooooodbye!!

  94. At least now she can stop blaming herself! Bless her heart. Hopefully he learns from this and someday they can rebuild their friendship

  95. Del's make-up is extreme to me. He opened up that door scared asking what did Brandon said. But felt it from the beginning that he slept with her ex.

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